Hello! The theme in this week is about Japanese religion, so I chose this topic. In Japan it is generalized that wedding is in church and funeral is in temple.From old,
it may relate to Japanese religion value which Japanese people have believed the god of 'Yaoyorozu', which is a kind of god in Japanese religion. Especially, almost all of the people in Japan are buddhist and they make a particular relationship between sect and temple. After dying, it cremates and puts bones in orn and finally buries them in graveyard of ancestor. Moreover, bereaved family pays a memorial tablet the dead in the buddhist altar, offers, floral tribute and prays. This is an usual Japanese style. In addition to this, we should be careful to the bereaved family. Japanese people make it a rule not to send a New Year's card on the next year's day to the bereaved family for mourning. In this case, we usually send news of period of mourning beforhand within by the end of the year. We should keep a rule in order not to trouble.
In Japanese funeral, there are four types mainly such as Buddhist, God, Christianity, and musyuukyou(has nothing to do with religion). Of these types, buddhist type is usual. Attendance must wear black clothes.


When I was in temple for funeral, I asked one monk like this, ' Why should I wear those?' The answer was 'For showing a meaning of sorrow, so it is better to unit one color, especially black. Gray is not bad, but black is better.' I learned this meaning at that time. If people are students, it is better to wear school uniform for full dress. The level of clothes or doing the mind depends on relation to the deceased. The closer the relation to the deceased people are, the more important they need a full dress and amout is higher. The day before funeral, wake for the dead is held. For funeral that day, attendance visits a funeral hall, and describes some regret words to the bereaved family. After that, a monk read a chanting sutra and the bereaved family makes an offering incense, and finally repots a separation to the dead, showing a sorrow attention and a regret affection.

In my opinion, these days circumstance of grave is getting more difficult. For busy contemporary people, they may need a new syle grave for time of cleaning and place, but I think the scene that family visits a grave om the Bon festival and holds a service for soul of ancestor always makes me feel Japan. For the grave arranged some flowers to cleanness,the grave which became France without relation roughly, and the scene of praying with the hand matched ardently to the dead, we may be able to feel common human desire(thought, idea, feeling and so on) on something.